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Choose the space that fits your current season:

1. The Weekly Letters

Every week, you’ll receive an open letter exploring life’s messy middle, including guest podcast conversations, thoughts on identity shifts, and real experiences from people navigating change.

It’s not another newsletter trying to optimise your life. Just a thoughtful pause in the week—a reminder that you’re not the only one figuring things out.

2. The Not Yets Circle (£17/mo or £150/yr)

If you want to go a layer deeper, lower your shoulders, and actively navigate your transitions alongside an intimate network of women, you are so welcome to step inside our paid space.

This option simply funds the independence of the project and opens up a few extra corners of our space:

  • Notes from the Middle: Exclusive, bi-weekly solo audio diaries. Raw, unscripted voice notes on my own pivots and sobriety journey.
  • The Private Chat Space: Your secure app backroom to share unpolished realities and connect with women who truly get it.
  • The Monthly Check-in: A dedicated thread with simple, guided journaling prompts to help us pause and lift each other up.
  • Hidden Essays & Private Archives: Access to my rawest personal diary entries and deep dives too vulnerable for the public feed.
  • Secure Comment Spaces: A private sounding board beneath every post to share your thoughts without public performance or pretense.

Because most of us are not lost. Not arrived. Just not there yet.

Pull up a chair and step inside.